Contract Of Ownership

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Of my own free will, and out of a desire to express my love and devotion to the woman I love and adore, I offer myself in slavery to you forever, or until I am released. [Release may be initiated by either party. However, there will be a three month waiting period between request for release and actual release, during which time reconciliation is possible. This is not, nor is it intended to be, a legally binding contract. The strongest bonds are those around the heart.]

I will devote myself completely and totally to your pleasure and desires, without hesitation or consideration of myself or others. I understand I am entering a Ds relationship, where the mental aspects of Domination and submission predominate the relationship, but there will also be times of Bondage, Discipline, and Sadomasochism. I will defer to Mistress's judgment at all times, and do as commanded.

I understand that I do not have the use of a safe word, however I do have the right to ask for free speech. I shall make my opinions known in a respectful manner, and will also voice my objections in a respectful manner.

General Provisions of this Contract

I. Our primary relationship is that of significant other's. The primary relationship includes, but is not limited to the following: loving and caring for each other, learning about each other and growing together, respecting each others opinions and the right to have them [even if not agreeing with them] and respecting each others beliefs and values.

II. You are my property. You give your body to me to be used as I choose, knowing that your body will be flogged, cropped, spanked, waxed and otherwise subjected to pain and pleasure at my discretion.

III. You will always love, respect and obey me to the best of your ability. Likewise, I will always love, respect and strengthen you in your submission to the best of my ability.

IV. Limits continually will be pressed and tested. The negotiations prior to becoming SO's will be conducted as equals, not as Mistress and slave.

V. Whether in Real Life or on the Internet, you will not serve or play with another person without my permission. You must also obtain my permission to meet with any person, from meetings or the Internet, in Real Life.

VI. If you feel you are being unjustly treated, you will tell me immediately. I will listen to any complaints regarding the treatment you receive, and will take them into account and act accordingly. You will not be punished for bringing perceived injustices to my attention.

VII. You must always be honest with me, and I shall always be honest with you, to the best of our abilities.

General Rules

The adherence of these rules will not be immediate. They are expected guidelines of the point in our relationship which will come to be achieved.

  1. Above all else, my only desire is to serve, obey and please my mistress. I will come to trust her fully.
  2. I will ask for permission to satisfy whatever need I have before acting on it, as my body and mind are the property of my mistress. I am my mistresses greatest treasure, and an instrument to be used by her for her pleasures.
  3. All my choices are based upon whether or not they will please my mistress. When I am not in my mistresses presence, and I have choices to make, I will make them to the best of my ability.
  4. When my mistress directs me to lick her pussy, I will do so vigorously for as long as I am required to do so. Making certain to thoroughly clean her pussy with my tongue. When required to do so, I will worship my mistress's ass only after a thorough washing of it, I shall do so hungrily, being sure to lick between the cheeks for as long as she requires me to do so.
  5. When in the home, and I remove clothing from my body it must be placed in the hamper immediately. If in a public location, my clothes will be folded neatly and placed in a small pile on furniture or in the toy bag.
  6. When in the house, but not in use, I will sit at my mistress's feet, until I am needed. My “place” is on my knees before her.
  7. My greatest felt satisfaction is realized when I know I have pleased my mistress.
  8. It is natural for me to feel depressed, saddened, and empty when I know I am not pleasing my mistress. I will address these issues with her. I want my submission to my mistress to feel natural and will work towards the end with a continued effort to enforce the growing feeling inside of me.
  9. I understand it is natural to feel fear, and will voice those fears with my mistress.
  10. I will not hesitate in my obedience to my mistress. The opportunity to please my mistress is very important to me and I will take every chance to do so. I have much to learn in order to become a well-trained and well-behaved slave.
  11. I will endure whatever pain my mistress gives me when she disciplines or punishes me so I can become a better slave for her, and will work on building up my tolerances to the level I feel is necessary to please my mistress, but I will be careful not to push myself farther or faster than I am ready to endure or adapt to. Through discipline and punishment I shall learn to behave.
  12. I will never touch my body with my hands or sex toys without permission from my mistress except to shower.
  13. I will give all that I am when I am in my mistress's presence in order to become free.
  14. I must never show disrespect for my mistress in any way, no matter where I am, in her presence or not.
  15. Crying and the shedding of tears for my mistress during punishment is good, and expected, for it softens my will and bonds me closer to her.
  16. I am always in complete submission to my mistress.
  17. The needs of my mistress are important, I must be attentive to her needs, and always be ready to respond to them to the best of my ability.
  18. I am allowed to suggest ways to further my training or use of me as long as I address my mistress properly first.
  19. I must always respond fully both physically and orally to whatever my mistress does with me. Expressions are important to her.
  20. If my mistress uses me to make love with, I will aggressively respond.
  21. I will always sleep in the nude, kneeling first before I enter my bed and kneeling first as soon as I get out of my bed, for it is a great privilege to have a bed to sleep on. The end of an evening and the beginning of a day shall always be with a pussy feeding.
  22. I must never tighten my body when it is being used as my mistress likes it when my flesh jiggles and she knows that when I tightened my body it hurts more.
  23. I am proud to wear upon my body the marks given to me by my mistress. I know that she will never scar me, but I will gladly suffer for her so she can mark me with the stripes she wishes to decorate my body with for her viewing pleasure.
  24. I will always listen with a strong interest in what my mistress has to say during my training. I want to learn all that I can from her so I can understand more about her, about me, about the BDSM scene and community, and about what is happening to those around me who are involved in dominant and submissive relationships.
  25. When standing still, I shall do so with my feet and legs apart, my hands held behind my back and my head bowed down. I will remain silent in the way my mistress has taught me. I will not speak to others without her permission, except to inform them that they will have to speak to her first. This is especially important at play parties.
  26. I shall gladly make my body available to my mistress to be used as furniture: a footstool to rest her weary feet and legs upon, my backside for a table to eat off of and the palms of my hands to be used to hold a plate of food or other items.
  27. Privacy is a privilege. I must ask for privacy and accept my mistress's decision, even when I am denied of it.
  28. As a provider slave I shall work steadily and efficiently for my employer, as my employer is too busy to have to do their work and mine. As a domestic slave I shall perform chores about the house. As a sex slave I shall incorporate a sexual attitude and hunger in everything I do, and be eager to sexually perform for my mistress at all times.
  29. When I have been given permission to play with myself I shall do so in the following manner: work my cock almost to an orgasm and then stop for a few minutes, then work it again almost to an orgasm and then stop for a few minutes, and then finally work it again to a full orgasm. Then, and only then, shall I enjoy an orgasm on my own. Should I cum before the third tier, I will tell my mistress so I may be punished. I will play with myself in this manner even in her presence when she allows me to touch myself.
  30. When my mistress uses me for her pleasures, or for making love to, and I can feel myself about to orgasm, I must ask for permission to have it or hold on till she gives me permission to do so.
  31. When I have chosen to be owned permanently by my mistress I shall present to her three names for her to decide which one will be my slave name. I know that she does not have to choose any of them and can choose one of her own for me to be known by. Thereafter, when someone asks who I am I can respond with the following: “I am slave xx, property of Miss Stress.” It is important to my mistress that my original identity is protected and that through my slave name I will know my other identity and act accordingly.
  32. I will periodically examine my whole life and look for how it has changed as a result of my subservience to my mistress, and will speak with her about those areas where there have been improvements and those areas where I feel uncomfortable, insecure, or unsure of what direction I should take to improve in that area.
  33. The money I earn in my career is to be deposited into a household account in order to help pay expenses. The allowance granted me is mine to spend as I see fit. I understand that my mistress will deposit 10% of my paycheck automatically into a savings account under my name, and may only to be withdrawn upon release from my mistress.
  34. I will always be honest with my mistress, never holding back an opinion or fact because I think it may displease her to hear it. If I cannot trust her enough to share everything with her, my relationship with her is in need of mutual reassessment. My mistress will never punish me for expressing an opinion, unless it was particularly disrespectful to her and her status. I will strive to make my opinions known to her, unless it directly transgresses a given order, such as one of silence.
  35. I will at times inform my mistress when I wish to be used, but with full knowledge that I will, without protest, accept her decision should she not choose to use me.
  36. I will always trust my mistress's judgment. Trust is paramount, of course, but I will remember this especially when she commands me to do something that might not seem immediately gratifying to me or her. If she orders me to perform a certain task or endure a specific test, she will have a reason for it, even if that reason is only to please herself for the moment, remembering that her concern for my well-being is as great as my concern for her.
  37. Whether my mistress is there to observe me or not, I will always attempt to make her proud in all I do, try to anticipate what she would consider to be the proper course of action for me to take, and act accordingly. Should she later inform me that my judgment was erroneous, make note of it, and remember it, should I once again find myself in a similar situation. If I make the same mistake a second time, my mistress will most certainly correct or punish me.
  38. My mistress will have complete control over my appearance. I may, of course, offer my opinions, but in the end, I will wear the clothing that she allows or chooses.
  39. I will display myself to my mistress and any other person(s) that she chooses as she commands, no matter how embarrassing it may feel or lewd it may be. I will cherish being called slave, slut, whore, wench or any other name that she chooses to use to indicate that I am her property. I understand that I am owned by my mistress, and she will make such use of me as she sees fit.
  40. I will consult with my mistress in all things possible. The only exception is when she has asked specifically not to be bothered with the issue or has commanded me to make my own decision in the matter.
  41. My biggest fear should be my mistress's displeasure. I should fear this, not because I expect punishment or correction when I incur her displeasure, but because nothing should bring more sorrow or pain to my heart than the fact that she is not pleased with me, for whatever reason.
  42. I will never do anything for my mistress simply because I fear retribution, if pleasing her is not enough to compel me to perform a task as directed, then our relationship needs to be re-examined. I understand that my mistress understands that I may fail certain tests or tasks, and may even expect such failure when she sets the task. This will not keep me from doing my utmost to fulfill it to the best of my ability, but neither should I automatically expect punishment or correction upon failure. Trying my best will make possible failure less serious to her.
  43. Rewards are earned. If my mistress deigns to give me something, whether it be an item, a respite from punishment, a lesson or a climax, she does so because she loves me, but also because I have demonstrated appropriate and pleasing behavior. This is especially true of orgasms. Although I can, as a rule, expect climaxes more frequently and in greater numbers than most men, I must not take them for granted. I will never attempt to please my mistress in order to receive a reward. Her pleasure is a reward unto itself.
  44. I will not freely accept a gift from anyone without informing my mistress of what I have received, and who gave it to me. Should she decide that I have not earned that gift, it will be taken from me, to be given back when, and if, she sees fit.
  45. I realize my mistress may own more than one slave, and that I, unless allowed by her, may never be able to have another mistress other than her.
  46. I will not be passive in serving my mistress. I will aggressively participate in my exchange with her.
  47. My limits do not have to be respected, I trust my mistress to take me past them when she believes that I am ready. Each side of the wall of my limitations is both pleasurable and a challenge, one side more intense than the other.
  48. I shall never think of myself as a weak person for it takes a very strong man to commit to the drive inside myself, to serve, to obey.
  49. I, too, have responsibilities, and as natural as they may seem to me, it is important that I use all of my faculties, including my creative spirit to submit to my mistress in a unique fashion to my relationship with her. By doing so, I hope to provide a good example to those male slaves around me who may still be learning, so they are not led astray from their primary focus, that they are as true to their nature as I strive to continue to be to mine. I must remember that how well I behave enlightens and empowers me to become even closer to who I am, a devoted slave, of good rapport to my mistress.
  50. I will periodically examine my whole life and look for how it has changed as a result of my relationship to my mistress, I will speak with her about those areas where there have been improvements and those areas where I feel uncomfortable, insecure, or unsure of what direction I should take, how I should behave, or how I can behave in a manner that is different from how I have been behaving in the past.
  51. When my mistress feels I am ready, and our relationship has progressed to a close real time commitment, I shall be specially prepared to receive her unique and permanent mark of ownership upon my flesh, in a place of her choosing. Thereafter, I shall become her property and slave in the most strict sense, completely hers for as long as the relationship continues to be managed and controlled in the manner in which is beneficial to each of us and in accordance with our mutually shared natures.
  52. I will regard my mistress with an attitude of respect and submission at all times. I will maintain a position behind you when in public, and will sit at your feet when appropriate.
  53. Outside play with other people will be considered on a case by case basis. I may not negotiate play with other people on my own, all arrangements must be made through my mistress.
  54. Sexual contact in play with outside people is not permissible under any circumstances.
  55. I acknowledge the importance of Ds in our life and will work to keep the power exchange alive in our daily lives. I understand that you, as my mistress, accept these terms of my slavery to yourself. You will treat me with respect and will cherish me as a prized possession. You will strive to maintain discipline, consistency, and creativity in our lives.
  56. I understand that I shall keep a daily journal which may be read by my mistress at any time she asks to read it. I understand and agree that any failure by me to comply fully with my mistress's desires shall be regarded as sufficient cause for punishment or release depending upon the transgression. I will keep a daily journal of my feelings through my journey of submission to my mistress. I understand my mistress may choose to read it, or leave my private thoughts to me.

Private Rules of Conduct

  1. Slave will wear no clothes in the house unless others who do not understand our lifestyle are present in the home.
  2. When in the same room as my mistress, I will ask permission before leaving the room, explaining where I am going and why.
  3. At mealtimes, I will serve my mistress, and sit at her feet while she eats. Food for myself will be given by my mistress at her discretion, unless otherwise directed or others not understanding of our lifestyle are present.
  4. When speaking to, or being spoken to by my mistress, I will assume a demeanor of alert attention and will meet my mistress's eyes directly, unless instructed to do otherwise.

Public Rules of Conduct

You will conduct yourself at all times in such a manner as to not overtly call attention to our Mistress/slave relationship. You will defer to me in public. You may dress yourself, but must seek approval of any clothing you wish to wear in public. Unless specifically stated otherwise, slave may not wear underwear.

Work Rules of Conduct

No part of this agreement is intended to interfere with the slave's career. Miss Stress wishes slave to work hard and honestly, and to conduct himself in a manner calculated to bring honor and respect to us both. Slave will perform his job duties as normal without interference or expressed permission to perform his job duties from me.

Play Party, Munch or other Ds Function Rules

If and when we attend any functions, such as play parties, munches, discussion groups or lifestyle classes, slave shall be in attendance as my property, and will act accordingly. This includes, but is not limited to, getting my drinks, holding my chairs, following commands given, sitting at my feet, and any other sets of protocol I may deem at the time. If another wishes to play with slave at any play parties, they shall need to ask my permission to play with you themselves. You shall inform anyone who express the desire to play with you, that they need to seek me out and ask my permission. I will ask if you desire to play with them, and will take your answer into consideration, but ultimately the decision is mine, and that decision may be “No.” Any actions which bring about embarrassment to myself will be met with punishment.

Alcohol And Drug Usage

Alcohol usage is permissible unless it becomes a problem in my view. However non-prescription drug usage is not permissible at any time, while in a relationship with myself. If, at any time, I discover you have a drug or alcohol problem you will be released. No exceptions.

Household Duties

Household Duties will include, but not be limited to: laundry, dishes, sweeping, mopping, cooking, massages, pedicures, manicures, yard work, and whatever else I deem to be necessary around the house.

Signatures

With my signature below, I agree to accept and obey all preceding rules, as well as any rules you may choose to issue at a later date. I gratefully consign my body and soul to you for your pleasure and use for the contract period noted above.

Date: _________________              Signature:______________________________

I accept slave's desire to serve me more fully, and take responsibility for his training and discipline to more perfectly serve my will.

Date: _________________               Signature:_____________________________