Interview
Q: What types of domination are you interested in?
A: I am primarily interested in total domination. Of course I have interests in things such as humiliation, teasing, orgasm denial, foot/leg worship, goddess worship, slave training, key holding, and spanking!
Q: What kind of slaves do you seek?
A: It's simple. I am only looking for particular slaves who I think can give me what I want. If I don't think you can give me this, then you can't serve me - simple as that! I am only seeking those who have no desire to "top from the bottom". I'm not interested in meeting someone who barely has enough money to support themselves, as I do like to be spoiled with dinners out, dancing, movies, a night at the theater, etc. Slaves that are accepted to serve me, will be obedient, respectful, have a willingness to learn, and will meet my requests. You must understand the whole concept of servitude and will not expect anything more than domination from me. Though I love to control and demand things from my slaves, I also tend to like slaves that don't need to be forced to do things for me. It is easier for me this way and that's always a good thing.
Q: How can I serve you?
A: There are several ways. 1) If you live in the Charleston, South Carolina area, you can schedule a luncheon date with me to be interviewed for service. Or 2) You can schedule an email session with me.
Q: Are you a pro domme and do you do this full time?
A: I am not a pro dom. I am simply a woman in control, who likes being in control with a kinky side, and who also likes to be spoiled with gifts and pampered by men who serve me. As far as whether I do this full time, I am a dominant woman, it is simply a part of who I am. I provide the services I provide simply because there are men in the world who are seeking a dominant woman and can't seem to find one locally, who are married and can't afford a professional Domina, or who are so new to the lifestyle that they are really just seeking someone to help them learn the ropes [no pun intended].
Q: What are your hobbies and what do you like to do for fun?
A: Well, I usually like to go out with my friends to drink, eat, party, basically whatever we feel like. I love to watch movies, so I go to the movie theater quite often. I also like to travel and go to museums and all that intellectual, artsy, historic kind of stuff. I like photography, shopping, and doing fun stuff. I also like to read excellent novels, write poetry, have good conversation, listen to music and dance.
Q: What do you dislike/hate the most?
A: Oh I have serveral pet peeves. The main ones however are people who turn left to make a right hand turn, I strongly dislike compulsive liars, back stabbers, people who are prejudiced or just plain stupid.
Q: Do you do cam, phone and r/t sessions?
A: I do email and real time sessions. I also help new Domina's learn how to tap into their natural dominance as well.
Q: Will you inflict physical pain on me?
A: It's my philosophy that I do not have to cause you bodily harm in order for you to meet my demands and obey my every command. You either desire to serve me or not. Although I do not find I need to inflict physical pain on you, I am more than capable of it. If you have asked me the questions in hopes that physical pain is the consequence of disobedience, and you enjoy physical pain, then you will be sadly disappointed in that realm.
Q: What is your level of experience?
A: My level of experience is rather deep and extensive. I grew up fast, so I entered this lifestyle when I really shouldn't have. I will tell you more once I've gotten to know you better, however this is a topic I do not feel is appropriate discussing in depth on a public web page.
Q: How long have you had or known of your interests?
A: I have known of my interests for a number of years, long before I was even oflegal age of consent. I have dominated people in at least a mild way, if not blatant way, since my childhood, although I didn't know it was dominance. I simply took charge in situations and told people what to do and how to do it. :)
Q: What is your sexual orientation?
A: I am straight, so I have no desire to sexually dominate other women.
Q: What is your main interest in having a relationship containing D/s aspects?
A: My main interest, predominantly, is total obedience. This does not mean that I expect a boy not to question me from the jumpstart. To expect such would be foolish, and to do so is even more foolish. That's how one gets hurt in a bad way. However, as I and my potential partner grow together, and come to trust one another more, and learn more of each other, etc, then complete and total obedience will be expected.
Q: What do you classify yourself as, and Why?
A: I classify myself first and foremost as complete woman. Just because I am dominant, does not mean I want to be a man. I still enjoy being spoiled, pampered and romanced. In fact, romance is a big part of my life. Secondly, I classify myself as a Mistress, to be obeyed, served and worshipped.
Q: What is your level of interest in bondage within a relationship?
A: I am not that interested in bondage. Ok, I know, many in this lifestyle are highly into bondage. I'm not. I do not find someone bound into a hogtie position to be attractive or a turn on in any way. Occasionally, I will chain a boy to the bed, but on average I do not practice bondage in any form.
Q: How do you view discipline in a relationship? What is it's purpose to you?
A: Discipline is important to me in a relationship. Without discipline, one still runs rampant on self-will. A D/s relationship, to me, is not about two people joining together for a bedroom romp, or as a weekend activity.
Q: Who can know of your activities?
A: Due to the fact that I have a housemate who's family visits from time to time, I have had to closet my activities some again. However, there are ways a boy can demonstrate his service to me without being blatant and calling attention to anything 'unusual' within our relationship. Otherwise, I'm pretty open about who I am, and how my relationships work.
Q: Do you have any specific fetishes?
A: The only thing I would classify as a fetish is foot and leg worship. I love to have my feet played with, massaged, stroked, rubbed, washed, etc. My legs are also pretty sensitive to touch, and so I enjoy having my slave rub them, stroke them, and lightly 'scratch' them. Otherwise, paddles are also a major turn on for me to use.
Q: What are your thoughts about the depth and exclusivity of a relationship?
A: This is a tricky question to answer. Depth of a relationship should be pretty deep. We both should come to a point in our relationship where we fully and wholly trust each other. As for exclusivity, well, I am the only one he will ever be with intimately, once we have committed ourselves to one another. On occassions, my slave will serve others in a domestic capacity. Also, if there is something my slave enjoys, which I do not, then I may treat him to being able to play with another, in my presence. As I said, this is a tricky question to answer. *grins*
Q: What services do you predominantly seek from a slave?
A: I seek domestic servitude first, and play time second.
Q: What would you consider a dream come true that you think could never really happen?
A: LOL. Finding someone who is reading my site thinking to himself "This sounds just like me!" and is bi-sexual.